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A New Leader for the Next Chapter of Growth at A Child's Hope

A Child’s Hope is thrilled to announce the appointment of Dr. Kim McCall as our new Chief Executive Officer. Dr. McCall brings more than 30 years of experience leading international nonprofit organizations through growth and transformation, and she will begin her service on July 27, 2026, with a focus on expanding partnerships, strengthening programs, and growing resources to serve more children around the world.

As the our first CEO, Dr. McCall will lead the organization through its next phase of growth, strengthening global partnerships while building on the child-centered mission that has defined A Child’s Hope since its founding.

"There is no one better suited to lead A Child's Hope into this next season of impact than Kim."

 “This is one of the most exciting moments in A Child’s Hope Foundation’s history,” said Marshall Dahneke, Board Chair. “Kim is a proven builder of teams, partnerships, and sustainable funding. She shares our conviction that every child deserves to grow up in a safe, loving family. We are building on the tremendous foundation established by our founding board members, Paul Cook, Perry Bratt and Paul MacArthur and the leadership of Executive Director, Kent White, by expanding both what we offer and where we serve. There is no one better suited to lead A Child’s Hope into this next season of impact than Kim. On behalf of the Board, I could not be more grateful for the efforts of all those that have contributed to where we are today  and we feel extremely optimistic about where we are going and the impact we will have.”

Dr. McCall most recently served as Executive Director of Children in Conflict, where she led U.S. fundraising and strategic partnerships in support of programs in 14 countries across the War Child Alliance. During her tenure, revenue grew nearly fourfold. Across her career, she has helped raise more than $300 million for nonprofit organizations and previously held executive leadership roles at Playworks, Kesem National, and Yamba Malawi. She serves as adjunct faculty at Columbia University and New York University and holds a PhD in Global Leadership and Change from Pepperdine University.

"I'm honored to join this remarkable team and excited to build new partnerships that will help even more children thrive."

“Every child deserves the opportunity to grow up in a safe, loving family,” said Dr. McCall. “What drew me to A Child’s Hope Foundation was not only its unwavering commitment to children, but its belief that lasting change comes from strengthening caregivers, communities, and local leaders. I’m honored to join this remarkable team and excited to build new partnerships that will help even more children thrive.”

"Kent White and his team spent years building this Foundation into what it is today, and none of what comes next would be possible without their commitment"

“Before we look ahead, we want to acknowledge how we got here,” said James Hodges, Chair-Elect of the Board. “Kent White and his team spent years building this Foundation into what it is today, and none of what comes next would be possible without their commitment, diligence, and legacy. We are deeply grateful to him and the team. That strong foundation is what allows us to welcome Kim with such confidence — her collaborative, strategic leadership is exactly what this chapter calls for, and we’re excited for the momentum she’ll bring to our mission.”

“I am thrilled that Kim is joining the team and could not be more excited for how she will impact orphaned and vulnerable children as we work to help them join families,” said Kent White, Executive Director of A Child’s Hope Foundation. “She has the heart and the skill set to lead A Childs Hope forward, and I’m proud to welcome her with my full confidence and support.”

With a focus on helping children leave institutional care and join families, A Child’s Hope Foundation partners with orphanages and children’s homes across eight countries, equipping caregivers with tools, training, and community through programs including the Thrive Tools, the Thrive Certification Program, and The Thrive Collective. One hundred percent of donations go directly to children and the homes that serve them, while foundational donors underwrite operating costs.

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I'm someone who shows up for kids who need it.

Recurring Giving Changes More Than You Think

There’s a moment, usually somewhere around the third or fourth month, when something quietly shifts.

You’re not thinking about the children you’re supporting. You’re not calculating your charitable giving for the year. You’re just going about your life: making dinner, sitting in traffic, waiting for a meeting to start, when a thought floats in, unprompted: I’m someone who shows up for kids who need it.

Not, “I donated once,” or, “I gave at the end of the year.” Something more present than that. More like a fact about who you are.

That shift doesn’t happen with a one-time gift. It happens when giving becomes part of how you live: when you stop being a donor and start being something closer to a constant. This article is about what that difference actually means: for you, for children, and for what becomes possible when people choose to stay.

Why Recurring Donors Think of Themselves Differently

The most important thing to understand about recurring giving is that it changes the giver. This isn’t a marketing line. It’s what the behavioral science consistently shows.

When someone gives once, the act sits outside their identity. It’s something they did, not something they are. The donation is complete, the relationship is closed. Research on prosocial behavior has found that repeated acts of generosity, unlike single acts, become incorporated into a person’s self-concept. People who give regularly don’t just have more giving on their ledger; they start to define themselves as givers. That identity, once formed, becomes self-reinforcing.

Research on identity-based motivation, developed by psychologist Daphna Oyserman at the University of Southern California, shows that when people anchor a behavior to their sense of who they are, that behavior becomes far more resilient. They are more likely to persist through inconvenience, through competing priorities, through the easy moments when lapsing would cost them nothing. The behavior stops being a choice they reassess regularly and becomes part of how they move through the world.

This is also why recurring donors don’t just give longer. They give more over time, advocate for causes more actively, and report higher levels of personal meaning and life satisfaction connected to their giving. The donation is not the end of the story. It’s the beginning of a reorientation toward what kind of person they’re becoming.

None of this happens by accident, and it can’t be engineered with one generous act. It requires repetition. It requires showing up, month after month, until the showing up becomes part of who you are.

The children who need the most help are also the children who need the most reliable help.

What Continuity Actually Means for Children

A one-time donation is not nothing. It funds a month of programming. It covers a specific need. It matters, and we are grateful for every expression of generosity, regardless of form.

But it is worth being clear about what one-time giving can and cannot do for children who need long-term stability.

Our Thrive Tools & Training Events (the primary mechanisms of change here at A Child’s Hope) work at the caregiver level. We equip the adults who care for orphaned and vulnerable children with assessment tools, training, and a network of support so they can provide better care over time. The operative phrase is over time.

Caregiver skill development is not an event. It’s a process. A caregiver who goes through one of our trainings doesn’t become transformed in a single workshop. They return, they practice, they apply the Improvement Roadmap in their specific context, they connect with peers through the Thrive Collective, and they get better in the way that humans get better at anything: incrementally, through sustained effort, supported by sustained resources.

The research on trauma recovery in children unambiguously supports that healing requires consistency. The Harvard Center on the Developing Child describes the conditions for healthy development as requiring a “stable, responsive, nurturing relationship”—words that are defined by their continuity, not their intensity. A caregiver who is inconsistently supported cannot be consistently present. A child whose caregiver environment is destabilized by funding gaps does not experience the stability that healing requires.

This is the practical argument for recurring giving that rarely gets said plainly: the children who need the most help are also the children who need the most reliable help. One-time donations, however generous, cannot sustain the kind of ongoing, compounding work that changes trajectories. What can sustain this work is a community of people who decided to stay—who committed to $20 or $50 a month not as a gesture, but as a practice, the way they might commit to anything else that requires consistency to produce results.

The Aunt & Uncle Program exists because those donors understand this. It’s not just a giving tier; it’s a structure built around the recognition that lasting change for children requires lasting commitment from the people who care about them.

That's not a small thing. It might be the most important thing.

What It Means to Be an Aunt or Uncle to a Child You've Never Met

Aunts and uncles occupy a particular role in children’s lives. They’re not parents, so the relationship doesn’t carry the same weight or legal responsibility. But the best aunts and uncles are people who show up, who remember birthdays, and who text out of nowhere. They are the ones who aren’t obligated to care, but do anyway. They create an experience of being seen by someone who chose to know them.

That’s the shape of the Aunt & Uncle Program. Not a transactional arrangement, but something closer to a real relationship mediated by commitment. Aunts and Uncles receive updates on the children in the partner homes A Child’s Hope works with. They hear about program impact, get first access to volunteer trips, and receive personal communication—not as donor perks, but because the relationship between them and the children they’re supporting is one we take seriously.

You may not be in the same room as the child whose life your monthly support is changing. But the relationship is real in the way that matters: your consistency is one of the reasons a caregiver has what they need to show up. Your commitment is part of the reason a child’s environment is stable enough for healing to take root. That’s not a metaphor; it’s the actual causal chain.

Research consistently shows that people who feel genuinely connected to the children they’re supporting stay committed longer than those giving to an abstraction. The Aunt & Uncle Program isn’t selling a package. It’s offering a relationship structure that makes the commitment feel like what it actually is: a real presence in the life of a child, sustained over time, across distance.

That’s not a small thing. It might be the most important thing.

What Changed When People Chose to Stay

The shift from one-time donor to recurring supporter is rarely dramatic. It usually sounds something like this:

“I gave once and felt good about it. But I kept thinking about it. I kept wondering if the work was still happening, if it was making a real difference. And eventually I realized that wondering is not the same as being part of it. I wanted to actually be part of it.”

That’s a pattern we at A Child’s Hope hear repeatedly. People who moved from one-time giving to the Aunt & Uncle Program rarely describe the change as primarily financial. They describe it as a change in identity. In how they think of themselves in relation to the children. In how they talk about A Child’s Hope’s work to friends and family. In what it feels like to know, month after month, that they’re still there.

The donors who stay become advocates in a way that one-time donors rarely do. Because they have something to talk about—not, “I gave once,” but, “I’m part of this.” They share updates with their networks; they bring friends on trips. Not because anyone asked them to, but because being genuinely part of something produces a different kind of ownership than a transaction does.

And for the children in the homes A Child’s Hope works with, the effect of that accumulated commitment is not abstract. More Aunts and Uncles means more caregivers trained and supported, more children receiving healing and education, and more children able to leave orphanages and be placed into families. Studies on donor behavior show that nonprofits with high recurring-gift retention are able to invest more in program quality rather than perpetually chasing new donors, which means the children benefit from the organizational stability that sustained donor relationships make possible.

The people who chose to stay didn’t just change their giving. They changed what A Child’s Hope can build.

Become Someone Who Chose to Stay

The Aunt & Uncle Program is an open invitation. It’s for people who want to stop wondering if the work is happening and start being part of what makes it happen.

For as little as $20 a month, you become an Aunt or Uncle: a recurring partner in the work of A Child’s Hope, someone who receives real updates and real reports from an organization that treats you like a person who chose this, not like someone in a fundraising database.

You may not meet every child your support helps reach. But you’ll know, in a way that accumulates over months and years, that your commitment is one of the reasons a caregiver has what they need to show up. That a child who needed consistency found it, in part, because you decided to stay.

Become a monthly donor

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These two children will grow up differently, in ways that shape every major outcome their lives will reach. This is what the research actually shows and what it means for the work A Child's Hope does.

What Happens to Children Who Grow Up and Are Not Seen

Imagine two eight year-old children. They live in the same country, under the same general circumstances. Both are living in an orphanage, separated from their birth parents.

Now imagine their lives diverging from a single variable: one of them has a consistent caregiver. This is not a perfect person, nor is it someone with a degree in child psychology or unlimited resources. It is just a person who shows up and responds—someone who knows that this child is afraid of loud noises, that she lights up when she draws, that she needs a little extra reassurance before bed.

The other child has no such person. The adults in her life are often overwhelmed, underfunded, and undertrained. They do their best, but their best doesn’t include the sustained, attuned attention that tells a developing child, “You matter. Someone is paying attention to you.”

These two children will grow up differently, in ways that shape every major outcome their lives will reach. This is what the research actually shows and what it means for the work A Child’s Hope does.

There are approximately

5.8 Million Children

living in institutional care worldwide.

The Data on Outcomes for Orphaned and Vulnerable Children

There are approximately 5.8 million children living in institutional care worldwide. This figure likely undercounts the true scope, since many children in informal care arrangements are never registered in official systems. When you include children living outside of institutions but still without adequate parental care—such as children in kinship placements without support, street-connected children, and those in other fragile arrangements—that number can exceed 140 million.

The outcomes for this population, when consistent caregiver support is absent, are not ambiguous.

Education

Children who grow up in institutional settings without stable caregivers face significantly worse educational outcomes. A study published in Child Development found that children in low-quality institutional care demonstrated substantially lower cognitive development scores and school readiness compared to children in family-based care, even when controlling for socioeconomic factors. In the United States, where data is more granular, only 50% of foster youth graduate from high school on time, compared to 80% of their peers. College completion rates for youth who age out of foster care hover around 3%.

Trauma and mental health

Children experiencing prolonged caregiver instability develop what researchers call “complex trauma.” Distinct from a single traumatic event, this is the accumulated neurobiological and psychological impact of repeated, chronic disruption in the caregiving relationship. A landmark study from the Bucharest Early Intervention Project, one of the most rigorous studies ever conducted on children in institutional care, found that children raised in institutions without consistent caregivers showed significantly elevated rates of anxiety, depression, inattention, and disinhibited social engagement disorder compared to children placed in family care. Critically, children who were moved into stable family care earlier showed significantly better outcomes than those who remained in institutional settings longer, demonstrating the plasticity of these systems and the urgency of the timeline.

Economic mobility

The downstream economic effects of unstable caregiving are substantial and measurable. Youth who age out of foster care in the United States without strong supportive relationships face stark statistics: within four years of aging out, 40% to 50% will experience homelessness, 60% of young men will be convicted of a crime, and the average annual earnings of former foster youth are significantly below those of their peers well into adulthood. Research suggests a high cost to society in public services, lost tax revenue, and social welfare costs for every young person aging out of foster care without adequate support

These are not edge-case statistics. They represent the predictable, well-documented trajectory of children who grow up without stable caregiving. Those statistics hold across geographies, cultures, and institutional contexts.

Here is the crucial finding that shapes everything A Child's Hope does: the presence of even one stable, supportive adult relationship can significantly buffer the effects of early adversity.

Caregiver Attachment and Child Development Research

To understand why a caregiver makes such a measurable difference, you have to understand what’s actually happening in a child’s brain during the early years of life.

The foundational work here belongs to British psychiatrist John Bowlby, who first formulated attachment theory in the 1950s and 1960s, and to decades of neuroscience that have since confirmed and extended his insights at a biological level. Bowlby’s core insight was deceptively simple: children are born wired to attach. Their survival depends on a caregiver; therefore, their brains are designed to seek proximity, read the emotional cues of adults, and calibrate their own stress responses based on whether they can reliably expect comfort and response.

When a caregiver is consistently responsive—when they notice the child’s distress and respond with warmth and reliability—the child develops what researchers call “secure attachment.” This is not just an emotional description. Secure attachment builds the architecture of a functioning stress-response system. The child learns that distress is manageable, help is available, that the world is friendly. That internal working model becomes the foundation on which all subsequent development rests.

What happens when that responsiveness is absent or inconsistent? The child’s stress-response system develops differently. Research from the Harvard Center on the Developing Child has documented how toxic stress (defined as excessive or prolonged activation of the stress-response system without the buffer of a supportive adult relationship) disrupts the developing architecture of the brain. Neuroimaging studies have found that early childhood adversity is associated with reduced volume in the hippocampus, altered development of the prefrontal cortex, and dysregulation of the amygdala—brain regions critical for learning, impulse control, and emotional reactivity.

These are structural changes. They are not permanent sentences, but real biological adaptations that make it harder to learn, regulate emotion, trust, and form relationships.

Here is the crucial finding that shapes everything A Child’s Hope does: the presence of even one stable, supportive adult relationship can significantly buffer the effects of early adversity. Harvard researchers put it plainly: “The single most common factor for children who develop resilience is at least one stable and committed relationship with a supportive parent, caregiver, or other adult.”

The caregiver is not a nice addition to a child’s development. The caregiver is the intervention.

This is the specific gap our Thrive Tools and training events address.

The Gap A Child's Hope Addresses

Here is where a well-intentioned understanding of this problem runs into a critical blind spot.

Most people who learn about the needs of orphaned and vulnerable children think the answer is funding for building better facilities or providing food, clothing, and medical care. These things matter, but they are not sufficient, and they are not the limiting variable. The limiting variable is the caregiver.

Studies consistently show that the physical quality of an institution matters far less than the quality of the relationships within it. A well-resourced orphanage where caregivers are burned out, undertrained, and quitting at high rates will produce worse outcomes than a modestly resourced setting where caregivers have the skills and support to form genuine, sustained relationships with the children in their care. And we find even better outcomes when children are then able to leave orphanages and be placed with stable and loving families.

The problem, then, is not primarily a funding problem. It is a caregiver preparation and support problem. This is the specific gap our Thrive Tools and training events address.

A Child’s Hope exists to equip orphaned and vulnerable children with skills, resources, and community so they can improve the trajectory of their lives. Because you can’t help children without helping their caregivers, we focus on building capacity there first. Our programs deliver training, build communities of practice, and provide directors and house parents with tools they have never had access to before: structured assessments to identify where their care is falling short, an Improvement Roadmap to prioritize what to address first, and connections to a network of supportive partner organizations that provide specialized services. All with the goal of helping move those children out of those facilities and placing them into safe families.

The Thrive Assessment measures how well an institutional home fulfills the 15 Rights of a Child—a framework built from the United Nations’ Convention on the Rights of the Child—and identifies the most urgent needs with precision. This matters because vague goodwill doesn’t change outcomes. A caregiver who cares deeply but doesn’t know how to respond to a child who has experienced trauma is limited by their knowledge, not their intention. The Thrive Program changes what caregivers know and what they can do with that knowledge.

The belief that a child’s outcomes should not be determined by whether their caregiver happened to have access to training or not is what motivates A Child’s Hope to build the infrastructure of excellence in orphan care. This is what it looks like to address the actual problem, not just its symptoms.

What "Elevating Care" Actually Looks Like

The statistics in Section 1 represent aggregate outcomes. But life isn’t a statistic; it is the sum of one decision after the other.

Consider what changes when a child has a caregiver who has been trained in trauma-informed care, who understands why this particular child shuts down in crowds, who has learned how to respond to emotional dysregulation without escalating it, who has the support of a network of peers and specialists when facing a situation they don’t know how to handle.

That child learns, over hundreds of interactions, that some adults can be trusted. She learns that when something is hard, help is available. That her reactions make sense, that there is context for her behavior, and that she doesn’t have to be afraid of failing and being punished. She develops the capacity to sit in a classroom and concentrate, because her stress-response system isn’t on constant high alert. She builds friendships, because she has an internal model that says her core relationships are safe enough to risk new interactions. She imagines a future because someone in her life has consistently communicated through their attention, their presence, and their responses that she is worth imagining a future for.

These are not miraculous outcomes. They are the ordinary results of what children experience when they are well cared for. The fact that we have to document them as outcomes of a program is only because so many children never receive this as a baseline.

The research bears this out. A longitudinal study from the Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry found that children who experienced secure attachment in early childhood showed significantly better emotional regulation, academic performance, and social competence at school age, and that these effects compounded positively over time.

The trajectory improves because the foundation underneath it changes. This is elevating care.

You Can Be Part of This

The Thrive Tools work because consistent support over time, at the caregiver level, produces consistent improvement in children’s outcomes. But that consistency requires sustainable funding. Not just one-time donations that cover a single month, but committed, recurring support that mirrors the very thing the program is trying to build: reliability.

The Aunt & Uncle Program is the specific on-ramp A Child’s Hope has created for people who want to be that kind of presence.

For as little as $20 a month, Aunts and Uncles become recurring partners in the work. They are not passive donors, but connected members of a community who receive updates on the children, reports on program impact, and the knowledge that their commitment is sustaining something that compounds.

You may never meet the child whose caregiver was trained through the programs your recurring donation funds. But the data are clear on what your funding makes possible: a caregiver who shows up differently, a child who experiences the world differently, and a trajectory that bends toward something better.

If the difference between a child who thrives and one who doesn’t usually comes down to one person, you can make sure that person has everything they need to show up year after year, giving hope to each and every child in their care.

How Giving changes you

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In multiple studies, nearly half of all viewers—people just like you and me—never see it. This happens not because they weren't paying attention, but because they were paying such focused attention that the gorilla became invisible to their eyes.

Why We Don't See Vulnerable Children–And What Happens When We Choose To

Take thirty seconds and try this. Watch a short video of six people passing a basketball, three in white shirts, three in black. Your only job is to count how many times the players in white pass the ball. You focus and count the passes. At the end of the video, a question appears: “Did you see the gorilla?”

Halfway through the video, someone in a full gorilla suit walks into the frame, beats their chest, and walks out. In multiple studies, nearly half of all viewers—people just like you and me—never see it. This happens not because they weren’t paying attention, but because they were paying such focused attention that the gorilla became invisible to their eyes.

This isn’t a trick; it’s how your brain works. And once you understand it, you’ll never look at a crowded room, a busy street, or your own neighborhood the same way again.

The Science of Selective Attention

The study you just saw was published in 1999 by psychologists Daniel Simons and Christopher Chabris and it would become one of the most replicated findings in cognitive science. They called it “inattentional blindness”—the tendency for the brain to filter out anything it isn’t explicitly looking for, even when that thing is right in front of us.

This isn’t a flaw in human cognition; it’s an elegant solution to an impossible problem. If your brain showed you everything, you would be paralyzed. So, it learns to show you what you’re primed to look for.

The mechanism behind this is called the reticular activating system, a network of neurons in the brainstem that acts as your brain’s editorial team. When you buy a red car, you suddenly notice red cars everywhere. There are the same amount of red cars on the street; your filter just changed.

Here’s the part that matters for what we’re about to talk about: your reticular activating system is not neutral. It is shaped by everything you’ve been told to pay attention to, and everything you’ve been told, implicitly or explicitly, doesn’t require your attention.

The Unseen Children Right in Front of Us

Here’s where we have to sit with something uncomfortable.

Vulnerable children are not some news story from an unrelatable context; they aren’t some problem happening in a parallel universe. They are in your city, in your neighborhood, in the school three blocks from your house, and at the park where your kids play.

As of fiscal year 2024, approximately 320,000 children remained in the U.S. foster care system on any given day, with over 527,000 passing through it in a single year. Globally, the number of children living in residential care settings like orphanages, group homes, and residential facilities, is estimated to be between three and nine million. An untold number beyond that are abandoned to raise themselves, living on the streets or worse. These children are not unseen because they are hidden; they are unseen because we were never told to look for them.

Think about the last time you moved through a crowded space like a shopping mall or a school pickup line. Your brain was running its filter the entire time. You noticed the person who looked like your coworker, the store you usually shop in, and the sound of your child’s voice. What about the children who don’t fit an alert your brain is already running? They blur into the background. This happens not because you’re indifferent, but because your filter was never calibrated for them.

This is the hardest part of what we know about selective attention: it operates below our values. You can genuinely care about vulnerable children as an abstract category and still not see the specific child who needs to be seen, because your brain never received the signal to look. And the stakes of missing them aren’t abstract at all.

Children who grow up without consistent adult attention—someone who notices them, tracks them, responds to them, and knows them—face measurably worse outcomes across nearly every domain researchers have studied, ranging from education to economic mobility. The research is unambiguous: a child who is unseen is a child at risk. The gorilla in this experiment isn’t wearing a costume. It’s a kid who needed someone to notice, and no one did.

The caregiver is the axis on which everything else turns.

What It Means for a Child to Be Seen

“Being seen” can sound like a soft idea, a feel-good phrase without real-world teeth. But developmental science has been studying what it actually means for a child to be seen, and the findings are anything but soft.

The term researchers use is “attunement.” It describes the moment when a caregiver accurately perceives, interprets, and responds to a child’s emotional state. This does not happen perfectly, nor does it happen all the time. However, it happens consistently enough that the child builds an internal working model of the world that say, “I exist. I matter. When I express a need, someone responds.”

This is the foundational architecture of secure attachment. And secure attachment, built in the earliest years of life and reinforced through an ongoing relationship, predicts outcomes that will shape a child’s entire trajectory: the ability to regulate emotion, form healthy relationships, persist through challenges, and trust that the world is safe enough to take risks in. These aren’t soft skills. They are the substrate on which a life can be built.

What happens in the absence of that attunement? When the adults around them are too overwhelmed, too absent, too untrained to respond with any reliability, the child’s developing brain adapts. It goes into a different mode: hypervigilance, emotional dysregulation, difficulty trusting, and difficulty learning. The neuroscience of early childhood adversity is clear: chronic unresponsiveness from caregivers is not merely emotionally painful. It is biologically costly in ways that persist for decades without intervention.

Being seen isn’t a metaphor. It is a neurological event. When a caregiver looks at a child with genuine attention, that caregiver is literally shaping the child’s developing brain. The attention is the medicine. And this is why the most powerful thing you can do for a vulnerable child is not to write a check to an abstraction. It is to ensure that the person who is closest to that child—the caregiver, the house parent, or the “aunt” or “uncle” figure in their life—is equipped to truly see them.

Someone told them to look, and they looked, and they couldn't unsee.

The Moment of Choosing to Look

Something happens to the people who choose to look, and the behavioral science on this is compelling: when we become aware of something we’ve been missing, we don’t go back. The reticular activating system recalibrates. Once you’ve noticed the gorilla, you notice it every time the video plays. Once you’ve really seen a vulnerable child, that awareness doesn’t disappear. It becomes a new filter—one that changes what you do with your attention, your time, and your resources.

The people who work with A Child’s Hope (including recurring donors, volunteers, and staff members) overwhelmingly describe a similar experience. There was a clear moment—something they read, or saw, or heard. Someone told them to look, and they looked, and they couldn’t unsee. That moment didn’t make them different people; it clarified the people they already were. And here’s the thing about choosing to look: it isn’t just transformative for the child. It changes the person who does the looking.

You don’t have to become an expert or overhaul your life. You just have to choose to look, and then choose again next month when the need is still there. Because the need is always still there.

You've Already Seen​

The fact that you’re here, reading this, suggests the filter is already shifting. Something brought you to this conversation. Maybe you saw something from our campaigns, maybe you read a story, or maybe a friend shared this. Whatever it was, you looked.

That matters—in a real and immediate way. Because the children A Child’s Hope serves don’t need you to be a superhero. They need you to be someone who keeps looking, someone who shows up, through your support, for the caregivers who are by their side every single day.

The Thrive Tools equips caregivers with the skills, resources, and community they need to see the children in their care—to really see them—and to respond in ways that heal, not harm. When you support A Child’s Hope, you’re not donating to a program. You’re funding attention, ensuring that a child who would otherwise go unnoticed has someone in their life who has been trained, supported, and resourced to truly see them.

That is what the Unseen Children campaign is built on: the belief that most people, when they truly see, will choose to act. Because once you see the gorilla, you can’t unsee it.

Giving Stability to Children

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]]> The Unseen Children https://achildshopefoundation.org/2026/06/05/the-unseen-children/ Fri, 05 Jun 2026 21:07:30 +0000 https://achildshopefoundation.org/?p=56697 Be someone who sees the children The Unseen Children There is a vulnerable child in the picture above. If you didn’t notice them at first, it’s not because you don’t care. It is because our minds are naturally wired to filter out the things we haven’t been trained to look for. In a crowded world, […]

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Be someone who sees the children

The Unseen Children

There is a vulnerable child in the picture above. If you didn’t notice them at first, it’s not because you don’t care. It is because our minds are naturally wired to filter out the things we haven’t been trained to look for. In a crowded world, children without a family, a stable home, or a loud voice often become unseen children.

We have all done this. We will likely all do it again, unless we choose differently.

Because awareness is a choice. We believe that when you train your eyes to truly see a vulnerable child—not as a statistic, but as a real person with a name and a future—something in you shifts permanently. You realize you can no longer just look away.

A Child’s Hope Foundation doesn’t ask you to solve a global crisis alone. We invite you to change a single child’s reality. Because the children we serve do not need a fleeting moment of pity; they need a reliable ecosystem of care. They need trained, supported, on-the-ground caregivers who are physically by their side every single day.

And, to make all these things possible, they need people like you who will support the caregivers that show up every single day. Who understand that making a child feel loved and cared for, instead of unseen and forgotten, is a daily practice.

This is your invitation to look closer, to see the unseen, and to choose to give hope.

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]]> How we Avoid the Pitfalls of Voluntourism https://achildshopefoundation.org/2026/05/13/how-we-avoid-the-pitfalls-of-voluntourism-2/ Wed, 13 May 2026 18:52:26 +0000 https://achildshopefoundation.org/?p=55765 You’ve likely heard the buzzword “voluntourism”—and you might have heard the criticism that comes with it. We don’t shy away from those tough conversations. In fact, we believe they are necessary. While some argue that service trips do more harm than good, we see a path forward that empowers both the volunteer and the community, […]

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You’ve likely heard the buzzword “voluntourism”—and you might have heard the criticism that comes with it. We don’t shy away from those tough conversations. In fact, we believe they are necessary. While some argue that service trips do more harm than good, we see a path forward that empowers both the volunteer and the community, particularly when caring for vulnerable children where the stakes are at their highest. Here is how we address the common pitfalls of the industry and why we believe a well-run trip can still be part of the global solution.

Draining Local Resources

The criticism: Communities receiving volunteers often feel pressured to be “perfect hosts,” pouring their own limited resources into food and housing for guests rather than improving their own lives.

At A Child’s Hope: We ensure our presence is a net gain, not a burden. The majority of volunteer fees go directly to the host home to cover meals and lodging. Furthermore, we intentionally frequent local restaurants and vendors, ensuring that volunteer spending stimulates the local economy rather than depleting it.

Inexperienced Volunteers

The criticism: Many trips put unskilled volunteers in charge of complex construction or social work they aren’t qualified to handle.

At A Child’s Hope: We prioritize connection over construction. While we do tackle physical projects, our volunteers’ most vital work is providing quality attention—reading, playing, and engaging with children under the direction and supervision of their caregivers. For technical tasks, we match volunteers based on their professional skills or hire local experts to lead or complete projects, ensuring the highest standard of work while supporting the local workforce.

Lack of Cultural Context

The criticism: Short-term trips often focus so much on “the work” that volunteers leave without any real understanding of the culture or the people they served.

At A Child’s Hope: Our itinerary is designed for immersion, not just labor. Service projects are typically limited to the mornings, leaving afternoons free for meaningful cultural exchange. We encourage volunteers to join children in preparing care baskets for local families or attending community services.

Our trips often include:

  • Engaging with local faith communities

  • Delivering care baskets to neighbors

  • Supporting local businesses and eateries

  • Educational visits to local landmarks

Disruption of the Local Labor Market

The criticism: Unskilled volunteers can inadvertently take jobs away from local laborers who need the income.

At A Child’s Hope: We only tackle vetted projects that the home needs but cannot currently fund, ensuring our efforts supplement local goals rather than overriding them. By bringing in volunteer funding, we actually create local jobs. Fees cover not only raw materials but also the wages of local professionals who oversee the work and ensure it is finished correctly.

Lack of Long-Term Maintenance

The criticism: Many “voluntourism” projects fall into disrepair because there is no plan for upkeep once the volunteers fly home.

At A Child’s Hope: Because our projects are chosen and prioritized by the orphanage directors themselves, we are investing in improvements they already want and are motivated to keep. We also don’t just ‘drop in’; we maintain long-term partnerships with these homes. Because we visit on a consistent, rotating basis, we are able to provide the ongoing funding and support needed to ensure these projects are maintained for years to come.

Our Commitment

A Child’s Hope Foundation has spent over two decades refining this model. We recognize that the root of “bad voluntourism” is the assumption that outsiders know what’s best.

We do not insert our own agenda into these homes. Instead, we listen to the caregivers and directors who live there every day. Our goal is to empower the local staff, alleviate their burdens, and provide the children with a “break from the everyday”—bringing joy, novelty, and the restorative feeling of a vacation to children who deserve it most.

Want to know more?

Ethical service is a big topic. If you have more questions about our safety protocols, financial transparency, or logistics, please send us an email at info@achf.org.

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]]> Heard It Through the Grapevine https://achildshopefoundation.org/2026/03/17/heard-it-through-the-grapevine/ Tue, 17 Mar 2026 18:37:04 +0000 https://achildshopefoundation.org/?p=55132 Service Trips Our service trips to Mexico are a great way to spend time with your family while also giving back to those who need it most. But we don’t want to toot our own horn. We’ll let volunteers who went on previous trips tell you what they loved. “Just playing together! Soccer, basketball, going […]

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Service Trips

Our service trips to Mexico are a great way to spend time with your family while also giving back to those who need it most. But we don’t want to toot our own horn. We’ll let volunteers who went on previous trips tell you what they loved.

“Just playing together! Soccer, basketball, going on walks, painting, etc.” –Rachel F.

“Just getting to know the kids and see their excitement and love for each other and for us strangers! It was humbling and beautiful!” – Danielle S.

“I really loved playing chalk with [the kids] and jump rope. I also loved painting with them.” – Molly Y.

“It is always playing with [the children] and also when we gave them their Christmas gifts. Just to see their faces light up was priceless.” – Natalie F.

“Watching my sons interact with the children. They would become fast friends and any differences melt away quickly. I wish we could have spent even more time with the kids.” – Rhet R.

Save your spot

Our service trips fill up fast. That’s why we open up several date options for you to choose from. Find one that fits your family’s schedule today!

CHECK OUR avaliable dates and locations

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]]> A Year of Growth and Connections https://achildshopefoundation.org/2026/03/17/a-year-of-growth-and-connections/ Tue, 17 Mar 2026 18:30:24 +0000 https://achildshopefoundation.org/?p=55125 Big Numbers from 2025 Charity used to be a quiet, withdrawn child who struggled in school and rarely shared what she was thinking. Through insights from the Thrive Assessment, caregivers recognized that her learning environment was not the right fit. When she was moved from homeschooling to a traditional school, everything began to change. Charity […]

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Big Numbers from 2025

Charity used to be a quiet, withdrawn child who struggled in school and rarely shared what she was thinking. Through insights from the Thrive Assessment, caregivers recognized that her learning environment was not the right fit. When she was moved from homeschooling to a traditional school, everything began to change.

Charity started making friends, riding the school bus, and enjoying daily routines with her peers. Her confidence grew, her performance improved, and today she is known around the home as “Smiling Charity,” a joyful reminder of how the right support and environment can transform a child’s life.

Your generosity is allowing unprecedented growth for Charity and many other kids around the world. And that is just the beginning!

Every year, we learn new things, connect with new people, and expand our mission of elevating how the world cares for orphaned and vulnerable children. 2025 was no different. But this year clearly showed us the power of community and scale.

To give you a quick overview, we supported 

2,064

45

289

kids through child advancement priorities

Homes

kids placed in families

Because of the Thrive Collective, we are now connected to 174 individuals across 118 organizations in 76 countries. Together, these care providers are serving more than 41,000 children. We don’t serve these children directly, but we are proud to play an active role by offering training, resources, and meaningful connections.

We receive so many success stories from our partner homes that it is impossible to share them all. In our annual report, we highlight just a few to illustrate the impact our donors are making through the tireless work of caregivers, social workers, home directors, and government officials around the world.

We hope you can take a few moments to read through the report and get a better view of what your support is accomplishing in the world.

Annual report 2025

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]]> A Family Trip Like No Other https://achildshopefoundation.org/2025/09/09/a-family-trip-like-no-other/ Tue, 09 Sep 2025 20:08:17 +0000 https://achildshopefoundation.org/?p=52234 The Most Meaningful Family Vacation You’ll Ever Take What if your next family getaway could deepen your family bonds, open your children’s eyes to the world, and leave you all feeling more connected, grateful, and inspired? That’s exactly what a service trip with A Child’s Hope Foundation can do. Unlike traditional vacations, service trips immerse […]

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The Most Meaningful Family Vacation You'll Ever Take

What if your next family getaway could deepen your family bonds, open your children’s eyes to the world, and leave you all feeling more connected, grateful, and inspired? That’s exactly what a service trip with A Child’s Hope Foundation can do.

Unlike traditional vacations, service trips immerse you in purposeful experiences. With A Child’s Hope, volunteers spend several days working directly with children living in orphanages. You’ll help with projects that improve the quality of life for these kids, engage in fun activities, and most importantly, create moments of joy and connection.

For families, especially those with young children and teenagers, these trips can be eye-opening. Kids begin to see life beyond their usual routines. They meet other children who live with different challenges—and realize they can still laugh, play, dream, and connect. Through these simple acts, your child gets to give instead of receive. And in return, they often walk away feeling full—of perspective, purpose, and joy.

For parents, the experience is just as powerful. Watching your child develop empathy, confidence, and a sense of purpose is something no amusement park can deliver. You witness them grow—sometimes in ways you didn’t expect. We often talk about wanting our children to be more grateful or less caught up in the “stuff” of modern life. But gratitude isn’t something you can lecture into your kids. It has to be experienced.

Unplugged and Deeply Present

This is not a spectator experience—it’s a chance to step into someone else’s world and offer something as simple and powerful as your presence. On these trips, families share meals with children in care, work on building projects together, and engage in crafts or sports. Many families tell us it’s the first time in a long time that they’ve felt fully connected—to each other, to a cause, and to a community.

We also hear it again and again: “This trip changed how we see the world.” That’s because service trips leave a lasting mark. They plant seeds of compassion and courage–creating life-long humanitarians is one of our goals. They teach that we all have the power to show up, lend a hand, and elevate the care of others.

One of the gifts of service trips is how they strip away the distractions. Screen time is nearly nonexistent, and what’s left is time—to play, talk, reflect, and be together. Years from now, your child might not remember every detail of the hotel you stayed in, but they will remember the friend they made at the orphanage, the wall they helped paint, the laughter they shared over a soccer game.

Hear From a Volunteer

We ended up being able to take the kids swimming on Thursday. They were very excited and we spent most the day at the pool. We had little swimming lessons with a couple of the teenagers and they were so nervous and brave about it, but did so good. It was really fun to be able to bond with them in a different way.

– Mikell M.

Safe, Structured, and Family-Friendly

We know how important it is for families to feel safe and supported. That’s why every trip is carefully planned and guided by trained hosts. Our partner orphanages are welcoming, our projects are age-appropriate, and our schedules balance service with fun. Whether you’re traveling with young kids or teens, there’s a place for everyone to contribute. Plus, you’re not alone. You’ll be joined by other families, couples, and individuals who, like you, want to make a difference.

We host trips for most part of the year, so there’s always options to choose from that can fit your family schedule. Just don’t wait too long to take action—these trips fill quickly, and spots are limited. If you’re looking for a family experience like no other—something joyful, moving, and deeply meaningful—a service trip with A Child’s Hope is exactly what you’re looking for.

Let’s elevate care together!

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